Tribute for MIchael Jeffrey Ilderton,Jr. (Guest book)
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MIchael Jeffrey Ilderton,Jr.

April 27, 1993 ~ June 18, 2017 (age 24) 24 Years Old
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Message from Gerri Petress
July 12, 2019 12:38 PM

Mike and Nicole,
I am so sorry to hear about Mike Jr. Mike you know who I am, I worked for you at #2 store on north main. I knew Mike since he was a baby boy. If you need anything you let me know. I didn't know about this until a few months ago. I lost my dad the same year in March. I know about Mrs. Ilderton she was so delightful. Now if you you need anything please let me know. You were so good to me.
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A candle was lit by Parker and Melissa on June 29, 2017 11:16 AM
Message from Bryn Chapman
June 29, 2017 7:58 AM

My heart goes out to your family. I understand your pain. My son, also named Michael, died of a heroin/fentanyl overdose on August 19, 2016. He struggled with addiction more than half his life. Please know that you are not alone in your grief and that many are praying and sending love your way.
Message from Tom Donaldson
June 27, 2017 7:20 PM

My condolences to the Family of Michael, While I have never met Michael my heart goes out to the family. The message in the obituary is well said. My Prayers for everyone facing challenges.
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A candle was lit by Tom Donaldson on June 27, 2017 7:14 PM
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A candle was lit by Paul J. Klosterman on June 27, 2017 9:35 AM
So sorry. RIP and condolences. May Our Risen Lord Savior Jesus Christ always be with Michael Jr. and the Ilderton family, especially during this time of mourning.
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A candle was lit by Leessa and Dickie Black on June 26, 2017 9:58 PM
Message from Leessa and Dickie Black
June 26, 2017 9:52 PM

Our hearts are broken for the loss of your son and loved one. You and all your family will be in our prayers. R.I.P. Michael.
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A candle was lit by RIP, our prayers are with the family. Caso Family on June 26, 2017 8:43 AM
Message from Paul & Kim Norcross
June 25, 2017 9:51 PM

Mike , Nicole & family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We remember many fun neighborhood gatherings together.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
May God give you strength during this difficult time.
Kim & Paul Norcross
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A candle was lit by Angie and Rick Peele on June 25, 2017 9:28 PM
Message from Diane Frazier Schrader
June 25, 2017 7:55 PM

Oh Mike, I am so very sorry for your loss. I just can't imagine what you and your family are going through. Prayers from the Frazier girls
Message from Sylvia Loflin Baird
June 25, 2017 7:30 PM

Mike, my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I am so very sorry for such a sad loss of such a vibrant young man. Just found out on Sunday evening. Just know I am thinking of you.
Message from Pam& Greg Mercer
June 25, 2017 6:13 PM

Mike, our hearts break for you and your family. We just returned to town and heard about Michael. We pray that God will hold you close during this very sad time.
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A candle was lit by Lori Bacon on June 25, 2017 5:58 PM
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A candle was lit by Wendy Gibson on June 25, 2017 5:20 PM
Message from Susan Jennings Vance
June 25, 2017 5:03 PM

Dear Mike and all the Ilderton family,
I'm so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Please know you are all in my thoughts.
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A candle was lit by Lena Horschler on June 25, 2017 2:26 PM
Message from Linda Rives
June 25, 2017 2:06 PM

I am sorry sorry to hear of your family's loss. I can only imagine the pain of losing someone so young and full of life. Praying for MIchael and the entire family. (Linda Rives, Parish Council, IHM)
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A candle was lit by Mickey Boylan on June 25, 2017 12:35 PM
Message from Mboylan437@gmail.com
June 25, 2017 12:35 PM

I was heartbroken to learn of Michaels passing at Mass this morning. I coached Michael all through his time at IHM. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Such a sweet young man, taken too soon.

Mickey and Tammy Boylan
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A candle was lit by Paige and Mike Kalish on June 25, 2017 8:56 AM
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A candle was lit by The Hughes family on June 25, 2017 7:39 AM
Message from Carol (Andrews) Hughes
June 25, 2017 7:36 AM

Mike & Nicole, Alex & Maggie,
My heart is broken for you all. Just getting back in town but please know that I like so many loved Michael. I am praying for each of you. I also want to thank you for sharing Michael's story. You are helping others through your grief and that speaks volumes. I am so sorry I missed his memorial but I am here for you all now and always. ❤️ Carol
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A candle was lit by Mary Wesley & Jordan Thompson on June 25, 2017 4:16 AM
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A candle was lit by Lynn on June 25, 2017 2:48 AM
Message from Mich Krull
June 24, 2017 11:24 PM

Dear Mike,
My heart bleeds for you. My arms are wrapped around you with everlasting love, friendship, thoughts, and prayers.
Love, Mich
Message from Leslie Gayle
June 24, 2017 9:47 PM

Mike and Nicole,

I'm so very sorry to hear of Mike's tragic passing. Please accept my sincere condolences and know that you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts!
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A candle was lit by Bev and Bobby York on June 24, 2017 7:17 PM
Message from Lori-Ann, Pete and Alex Sarmiento
June 24, 2017 5:13 PM

We are sorry for your loss. Michael will be remembered in hearts and memories. Your family is in our prayers.
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A candle was lit by The Sarmiento Family on June 24, 2017 5:09 PM
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A candle was lit by Grady Barbee on June 24, 2017 5:04 PM
Message from Grady Barbee
June 24, 2017 5:04 PM

Mike...I was so sorry to see this in today's paper. As the parent of a son, I just can't imagine how painful this must be for you and your family. You and I have been buddies for years and I when I saw this, I went by what used to be your house to give you a hug but I don't think you live in the neighborhood any more. Please know that you are not alone even though it may feel like it today. But even people like me that you have not seen in a while, still care about you and share in your sorrow. May his Memories be Eternal
Message from Kelly Crisco Hart , Springfield MO
June 24, 2017 4:19 PM

Dear Mike and Ikderton family,
I am so sad to learn of your son's passing. No amount of words can adequately comfort you so I ask the Lord of all comfort to be with you and give you strength, clarity, and His peace which does surpass all understanding. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
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A candle was lit by Louise Komaromy on June 24, 2017 3:56 PM
Message from mary kirkman
June 24, 2017 2:47 PM

I am so sorry for your loss I know what you are going through may god take away the pain and sorrow that you are going through praying for the family god bless mary kirkman
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A candle was lit by mary kirkman on June 24, 2017 2:37 PM
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A candle was lit by Julie Wentz on June 24, 2017 11:13 AM
Message from Patty Kenneke Donahue
June 24, 2017 11:05 AM

Dear Nicole - we were so sorry to hear about Michael's passing and we wanted to just let you know that you and your family, especially Alex and Maggie, are in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you all during this difficult time. Hugs from the Kennekes. xoxo
Message from Ruth Bratburd Strasburger
June 24, 2017 10:44 AM

Dear Nicole and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Michael's death - such a great loss to your family. Sounded as though he was a lot like the girl I grew up with in Bethesda - you did a great job as parents. Please remember that - unfortunately no matter how hard we try, sometimes it's out of our hands. Prayers for comfort to you and your family as well as hugs and love.
Message from Julia Cooper
June 24, 2017 8:58 AM

So sorry for your lost. May God's peace be with you and your family.
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A candle was lit by Darlene Greeson on June 24, 2017 8:52 AM
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A candle was lit by Blair Crover on June 24, 2017 7:48 AM
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A candle was lit by Susan Dubuque on June 24, 2017 7:37 AM
Message from Sally Holcomb
June 24, 2017 6:44 AM

My deepest sympathy, best thoughts, and prayers go out to you as you grieve the loss and celebrate the life of Michael. I have no idea what a struggle it likely is, but send warmest wishes that you are able to hold tight to the memories and love throughout.
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A candle was lit by Helen lankford on June 24, 2017 5:45 AM
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A candle was lit by Hannah Hatton on June 24, 2017 2:39 AM
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A candle was lit by Glenda Martin on June 24, 2017 12:34 AM
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A candle was lit by Peggy Holbrook on June 24, 2017 12:23 AM
Message from Peggy Holbrook
June 24, 2017 12:22 AM

My love and prayers are with each of you. Michael was full of personality and made the world a better place for each of us. He will be missed!
Message from Lia Roach and Family
June 24, 2017 12:04 AM

Nicole and Family
We are so sorry to hear Of your loss, our family
will keep you in our hearts and prayers.
God Bless you all
With our sincerist condolences,
The Roach Family
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A candle was lit by The Roach Family on June 24, 2017 12:01 AM
Message from Rebecca W Kageorge
June 23, 2017 11:40 PM

Nicole, Alex and Maggie I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm so sorry for Michael. God bless you all.
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June 23, 2017 10:40 PM

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for all of you during this time.
Message from Angie Harte
June 23, 2017 9:46 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss...Lifting you all in prayers . I was blessed to know Michael and I saw his kind heart . God bless you all .
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A candle was lit by Sandi Poole and I will also light at candle at OLOL this wee on June 23, 2017 9:46 PM
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A candle was lit by Angie Harte on June 23, 2017 9:43 PM
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A candle was lit by Jackson Harte on June 23, 2017 9:43 PM
Message from Cindy Wagoner
June 23, 2017 9:37 PM

Nicole, your Wakefield family is keeping you and your family close in our hearts and prayers.
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A candle was lit by Russell, Crystal and Brady Johnson on June 23, 2017 9:29 PM
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A candle was lit by Angela Lane on June 23, 2017 8:48 PM
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A candle was lit by Angela Lane on June 23, 2017 8:45 PM
Message from Perry, Connie, and Addie Roach
June 23, 2017 8:10 PM

We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts, love and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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A candle was lit by Haleigh on June 23, 2017 7:48 PM
Message from Haleigh
June 23, 2017 7:47 PM

I didn't have the opportunity to know michael like most people did, but he was always so friendly when he came in Walgreen's. My deepest thoughts and sympathy are with the family during this tragic time. I am sorry for your loss!!
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A candle was lit by Glenda Terpstra on June 23, 2017 7:43 PM
Message from Anonymous
June 23, 2017 7:37 PM

We lost a really sweet and beautiful soul. My condolences to the family. Mikey was so good with kids and very kind to everyone he knew. Praying for the family and many friends.
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A candle was lit by Genie on June 23, 2017 7:33 PM
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A candle was lit by The Clayton Family on June 23, 2017 6:59 PM
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A candle was lit by The Clayton Family on June 23, 2017 6:59 PM
We would like to express our sincere sympathy to the Ilderton Family at this time of great loss. He was a sweet kid and will be greatly missed by all. We will be remembering you all in prayer for God's comfort at this greatly difficult time. Michael was truly a very likable person and we too are affected by his loss and it hard to accept that such a young, vivacious person is gone from our lives.
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A candle was lit by Denise DeSalvo on June 23, 2017 4:33 PM
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A candle was lit by Sherry Leonard Noble on June 23, 2017 4:27 PM
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A candle was lit by Sandy M. Ilderton on June 23, 2017 4:04 PM
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A candle was lit by Sandy M. Ilderton on June 23, 2017 4:04 PM
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A candle was lit by Kathy Kendrick Jarrett on June 23, 2017 3:35 PM
Message from Ceci & Leo Thomas
June 23, 2017 1:31 PM

Sending our sincere condolences for Nicole & Mike and their families. Michael is with Our Lord & Savior, resting in the arms of Jesus. God Bless.
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A candle was lit by Joshua Kendrick on June 23, 2017 1:29 PM
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A candle was lit by Bunnie and Michael Smith on June 23, 2017 1:29 PM
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A candle was lit by Ceci & Leo Thomas on June 23, 2017 1:28 PM
Message from Patty Kidd
June 23, 2017 11:51 AM

Nicole, Alex, and Maggie,
I am so sorry. I do not know what to say but that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Michael was such a special person. He had the the sweetest nature and made everyone that met him smile. Please know that all of you will always be close to my heart. Love, Patty
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A candle was lit by Patty Kidd on June 23, 2017 11:44 AM
Message from steve bryant
June 23, 2017 11:20 AM

My sincere condolences to the Ilderton family for your tragic loss. And my sincerely thank you for the courage to let the public know about the cause of your son's untimely passing. I lost two children last year to the scourge of drug addition and I feel that the only way we can begin to fight it is with open and frank acknowledgement of the problem. May God help you with the pain of your loss.
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A candle was lit by Barbara Green on June 23, 2017 11:11 AM
The entire Famiy is in my Prayers.
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A candle was lit by Barbara Green on June 23, 2017 11:09 AM
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